This is a recent situation… so it’s safe to say there has never been any advances in the situation.
Natalie and Zoe had a dentist appointment yesterday. Dad had messaged DB a few days ago asking her if he could take them to their appointment if she wasn’t able to. Her reply was “I’m taking them”.
I work all day in a town about 30 minutes away from home. I’m not around to spy, nor do I have the energy to do so, but I do have friends that randomly send me stuff or ask me things. In this situation, I got a message asking why Greg (DB’s stepdad) was at the dentist with Natalie and Zoe. They weren’t asking because they thought it was wrong for a grandpa to take their grandkids somewhere, she was asking because I had mentioned to her that Dad was hoping to take them when I had spoken to her a few days prior. She lives in the town the dentist is and happened to drive by around the same time that they had gotten there. Had she not mentioned that, we wouldn’t have known, because about an hour after the dentist appointment, DB sent Dad a message about the dentist appointments and how everything went….. as if she were there herself.
Dad messaged her letting her know that he doesn’t appreciate being lied to. He also let her know that if she’s not able to take the kids somewhere, he’d be more than happy to, but then again reminded her that lying about things isn’t acceptable, especially when it comes to his kids. Her response? “It’s none of your business what I do with the kids” AND THEN proceeded to send another message to Dad about something I shared on Facebook, saying how inappropriate it was and how she shared it with the girls (who we don’t necessarily agree with being on social media at their ages) and how they were hurt by it.
These girls aren’t old enough to understand the post even if they had seen it. In addition, there is no reason that they should be seeing it. I have DB and all of her family and friends blocked. Lastly, all I posted was a meme. I didn’t mention names. I didn’t say that it’s about our current situation. I did none of that.
So somehow, the children that DB and Dad had together aren’t any of Dad’s business……… but my social media page is hers? Someone needs a psych eval.